Series Details
Marriage is hard—there’s no doubt about that. So, is it possible for a marriage to move beyond mere survival into a thriving union? Absolutely!
God designed this ancient institution to bless His people, to reflect His character, and to work out His purposes—despite all the difficulties.
In this series on marriage, Pastor Chuck Swindoll reveals the biblical design, dynamic, and destination of healthy marriage, so you can move into a vibrant, deep, Christ-centered relationship with your spouse.
Marriage is undoubtedly a challenging journey, but it was never intended to be a mere dutiful contract to be endured. God designed this ancient institution to be a source of blessing, a reflection of His character, and a vital part of His redemptive purpose. In this series, Chuck Swindoll addresses the unprecedented challenges facing the modern family and provides practical, scriptural guidance to help couples move from “survival mode” to a thriving partnership. By examining the biblical design for the home, you can rediscover the excitement and depth that God intended for your marriage.
This Is Not Your Grandfather’s Family
Sermon Summary If we were to journey back through the decades, we would find that the typical family has undergone a radical transformation. Today’s couples face unique cultural pressures and distractions that previous generations never imagined. This opening message analyzes the current state of the family and emphasizes that surviving in this environment requires a deliberate return to foundational truths. We learn that while the times have changed, God’s blueprint for a healthy home remains the only stable anchor in a shifting society.
Key Facts & Themes
- Cultural Shifts: Identifying the unique challenges facing the 21st-century home.
- The Stability of Truth: Why ancient biblical principles are more relevant than ever.
Getting Back on Target
Sermon Summary It is easy for a marriage to drift off course over time. This message focuses on the importance of “re-aiming” the relationship toward God’s original design. Chuck discusses the essential priorities that keep a couple aligned with one another and with the Lord. We learn that a thriving marriage requires constant adjustments and a commitment to keep Christ at the center of the target, ensuring that the union serves a purpose greater than itself.
Key Facts & Themes
- Spiritual Alignment: Placing Christ at the center of the marital target.
- Course Correction: Practical steps for couples who feel they have drifted apart.
Symphony of Survival in the Key of C
Sermon Summary Survival is the first step toward thriving, and it requires a certain “harmony” between spouses. This message explores the “Key of C”—essential qualities like commitment, communication, and compassion. Chuck uses the imagery of a symphony to show how different roles and personalities can work together to create a beautiful union rather than a clashing noise. We learn that mastering these “C” qualities provides the resilience needed to endure life’s inevitable discordant moments.
Key Facts & Themes
- Commitment and Communication: The core pillars of a resilient relationship.
- Harmonious Living: How to navigate differences without creating division.
Essential Glue for Every Couple to Apply
Sermon Summary What holds a marriage together when the pressure is on? This message identifies the “essential glue” found in Scripture: selfless love and mutual respect. Chuck discusses how these virtues act as an adhesive that prevents a relationship from fracturing under the weight of trials or routine. We are challenged to apply this “glue” daily, moving past superficial feelings to a deep, tenacious bond that mirrors Christ’s love for the church.
Key Facts & Themes
- Tenacious Love: The power of selfless devotion to bind a couple together.
- Biblical Respect: Understanding the role of honor in maintaining a strong bond.
Danger Signs of Marital Erosion
Sermon Summary Marriages rarely collapse overnight; they usually erode slowly over time. This message identifies the subtle “danger signs” of erosion, such as neglect, unresolved bitterness, and a lack of spiritual intimacy. Chuck provides a sobering warning to look for these signs before the foundation is compromised. We learn how to perform a “spiritual inspection” of our relationship and take proactive steps to shore up the weak spots through repentance and renewed effort.
Key Facts & Themes
- Vigilance: Recognizing the subtle symptoms of a weakening marriage.
- Preventative Maintenance: Taking action to stop erosion before it causes a collapse.
Staying Young as Your Family Grows Older
Sermon Summary The series concludes with an encouraging look at the long-term journey. As the years pass and the family dynamic changes, it is vital for a couple to “stay young” in their love for one another. Chuck discusses the importance of maintaining a sense of humor, adventure, and romance as the family grows older. We learn that a thriving marriage doesn’t end when the children leave the nest; it enters a new and fruitful season of companionship and legacy.
Key Facts & Themes
- Lifelong Romance: Keeping the spark alive through the different stages of life.
- Finishing Well Together: Building a marriage that grows stronger with age.
